Touch sensory issues in relationships - Love and Dating

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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2012 1:50 am?? ?Post subject: Touch sensory issues in relationships
Just wondering how sensory issues with touch affect relationships? I'm not in any relationship, and never have been, though I'm just wondering if I ever am, how would sesory issues with touch affect things? Does anyone have experience with this? Edit: Also wondering what benefit NT's get from touch? _________________ No one will tell me who and what I am and can be. Last edited by Cogs on Sun Jul 22, 2012 2:08 am; edited 1 time in total

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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2012 2:16 am?? ?Post subject:
I mean that I need to initiate... if I am ready for touch I am less bothered by it. When I was married I was forever swatting my husband off.. especially if he touched my overly sensitive bits. However if I took his hand and kept my hand over his, I accept it better, especially if I kept his touch firm and not light. Light touch drives me almost insane. unexpected touch = bad unexpected light touch = ++ bad initiated touch = good guided initiated touch = ++ good

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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2012 3:56 am?? ?Post subject:
Valkyrie2012 wrote: I mean that I need to initiate... if I am ready for touch I am less bothered by it. When I was married I was forever swatting my husband off.. especially if he touched my overly sensitive bits. However if I took his hand and kept my hand over his, I accept it better, especially if I kept his touch firm and not light. Light touch drives me almost insane. unexpected touch = bad unexpected light touch = ++ bad initiated touch = good guided initiated touch = ++ good This is exactly how I feel. When I know it's coming, or I initiate it, I'm comfortable. Whenever else, it's painful. Though, I can say that I like touch from people that I am interested in - whether I expect it or not. But, only for a while. _________________ Your Aspie score: 165 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 38 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie

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